I’ve tried hundreds of sex toys over my 10+ years as a sexual wellness writer and can confidently say that long-distance sex toys are a game changer for anyone in an LDR. Sure, FaceTime and sexting are fun, but these toys create more intimacy from afar, which leads to a deeper connection. When my partner was living in Paris and I was in New York, the now retired We-Vibe Plus 4 quickly became essential to our sex life. Despite the ocean between us, it created an opportunity for us to still build closeness in real time. Today you can choose from all sorts of app- and remote-control vibrators that can be directed from anywhere in the world—just hand off the reins to your partner. There are suction toys that mimic oral sex, dual-stimulating rabbit vibrators, wearable vibrators, and more.
To help you choose the right sex toy for your long-distance relationship, I spoke to sex experts and Glamour reviewers to bring you some truly great options. Our top pick is the We-Vibe Sync 2, a tried and true vibrator that’s backed by experts, but we also have budget-friendly finds like the popular rose vibrator that makes an excellent Valentine’s Day gift.
The best long-distance sex toys, at a glance
- Best Overall: We-Vibe Sync 2, $159
- Best Dual Stimulator: Lelo Ida Wave, $189
- Best Rabbit Toy: Lovense Nora, $130
- Best Wearable: We-Vibe Moxie+,
$139$110 - Best for G-Spot: Lelo Liv 3, $99
